After heartbreak, where do you go? I mean, you committed your full trust in someone, possibly lost touch or just plain lost some of your friends, and gave 110% love just to have your heart torn savagely apart. The best way to get over a break up is reinvention, at least that's always the way that I deal with it. Lose that extra weight you have been carrying around for however long. Get your hair dyed. Get that piercing or that tattoo. Party your ass off and hook up with random people. Above all, put faith in your friends and family because they are the ones that are still around and always will be.
As far as new love, well, don't rush it. There are many more fish in the sea (incredibly cliche, but true). As difficult as it may be to comprehend, we are genetically engineered to have multiple partners and that soul mate stuff if bullshit. We, as humans have the chemical possibilities to fall in love more than once. The only advice that I can really give is to live and learn. Learn from mistakes made in the past, wear a protective armor around your heart and the people that will treat you properly will chisel past that armor because they know that you are worth it. Which you are. Just because one person is not compatible with you, doesn't mean that others aren't. It simply means that they were too stupid to see what a great person you are. Don't give up and don't listen to that lovey dovey heartbreak shit because all that does is trigger depression.
Three Little Birds - Bob Marley
