Kate Nash - Nicest Thing
There is nothing worse than unrequited love and unfortunately, it happens ALL THE TIME. Whether it be with a close friend, a distant friend, a co-worker, or just some random person that keeps popping into your life, either end of the stick gets screwed on the deal of unrequited love (at least those that don't play with others).
Unrequited love is pretty self explanatory, someone is into the person way more than the other person. It is embarrassing if you swallow your pride to admit that you like someone, just to find out that they do not feel the same way about you. On the other end of the spectrum, you could really enjoy spending time with someone that happens to be in love with you. If you keep hanging out with them and acting the same, it is very unlikely that those feelings will just 'poof' disappear. All in all, unrequited love is one of the hardest things that anyone and everyone will ever have to deal with and quite honestly, there's no easy solution to the problem.
Showing posts with label heartbreak. Show all posts
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February 9, 2011
February 8, 2011
You Could Be Happy
Snow Patrol - You Could Be Happy
This is by far one of the most depressing songs that I have ever listened to and I'm sure that many people can agree with that. Why? Because every single one of us that has been in love wonders 'what if'. What if I stayed with him? What if I moved back home to be with him?
There is not a day that goes by that I don't think about my first love. I always felt like it was some weird obsession, but I have come to realize that there are many people that go through it. How can I not think about someone that I spent more than half of my life with... the half of which was my entire teenage years. I will never forget him. Of course, I will never forget what he did to me either. I will never forget the mistakes that I made with him and the regrets and bundles of guilt that I have due to those mistakes.
I have come to realize that most of the time things don't exactly work out the way that they were planned to work out, but that doesn't mean that life has a bunch of failure in store for your future. Instead, it means that you are supposed to learn from previous mistakes that were made.
My past relationship did not have loyalty, trust, or honesty. I always thought that was the kind of thing that could develop over time. I have come to learn that it's not like that at all though. It's like when you walk into a classroom for the first day and the teacher tells you that you have an 'A' (a 100% so far), but that can change easily with the level of commitment that you put forth. Really, it's the same with relationships. If you start out honest. If you start out loyal. If you start out trustworthy than that person has no reason to doubt you or lie to you unless if you make a mistake. It's not really the sort of thing that can develop overtime. Although, I must admit that it took me a few months with my current boyfriend to have trust in anyone, but that's simply because I was still so broken from the past.
There are naive parts of me that I will never get back. There are pieces of my heart that will always remain broken.
To the singles: Make sure that you find yourself before you try to find others.
This is by far one of the most depressing songs that I have ever listened to and I'm sure that many people can agree with that. Why? Because every single one of us that has been in love wonders 'what if'. What if I stayed with him? What if I moved back home to be with him?
There is not a day that goes by that I don't think about my first love. I always felt like it was some weird obsession, but I have come to realize that there are many people that go through it. How can I not think about someone that I spent more than half of my life with... the half of which was my entire teenage years. I will never forget him. Of course, I will never forget what he did to me either. I will never forget the mistakes that I made with him and the regrets and bundles of guilt that I have due to those mistakes.
I have come to realize that most of the time things don't exactly work out the way that they were planned to work out, but that doesn't mean that life has a bunch of failure in store for your future. Instead, it means that you are supposed to learn from previous mistakes that were made.
My past relationship did not have loyalty, trust, or honesty. I always thought that was the kind of thing that could develop over time. I have come to learn that it's not like that at all though. It's like when you walk into a classroom for the first day and the teacher tells you that you have an 'A' (a 100% so far), but that can change easily with the level of commitment that you put forth. Really, it's the same with relationships. If you start out honest. If you start out loyal. If you start out trustworthy than that person has no reason to doubt you or lie to you unless if you make a mistake. It's not really the sort of thing that can develop overtime. Although, I must admit that it took me a few months with my current boyfriend to have trust in anyone, but that's simply because I was still so broken from the past.
There are naive parts of me that I will never get back. There are pieces of my heart that will always remain broken.
To the singles: Make sure that you find yourself before you try to find others.
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