Every single woman gets excited at the dating prospect. When a guy asks a girl on a date, even if we refuse, it is still nice to get the attention. We appreciate it.
Going on the actual date can be nerve wrecking. You bet your ass we are going to our friends for advice on what to wear, whether or not we look and smell amazing. If we look too desperate or not desperate enough. What we should say, what we should not say. Whether or not to go into exes or baggage details. If a kiss happens at the end of the night, are we moving to fast, or is that allowed?
When a guy sweeps a girl off of her feet, to the point where she is talking about him more than just about everything else in her life and making sacrifices to see him again. Well... maybe you should reconsider.
The truth... 65% of guys, at least in their 20's are looking for nothing more than a lay. Live and learn. Do not sleep with the guy until you are comfortable enough to share that baggage, which should not happen until at least date three. If you give yourself on the first date, you would be the exception to the rule if things work out. If you put out on the second date, well, things are still shaky. Make sure you know what you want and what he wants. Establish boundaries. Make sure he's into you, or you might end up not only feeling like a whore, but feeling miserable as well. Dating is a toss up. You never know how things are going to end up. You never know how well connected you are going to be with the person. So give it time. If he pressures you into anything sexual, you don't have to do anything that you aren't comfortable doing. If he persists, then he is not worth your time... Unless if you are looking for a fuck buddy or a friend with benefits.
Just keep yourself in mind throughout the entire process. Don't go for anything less than what you deserve. There are plenty of fish in the sea and until you find your fishmate, there is absolutely nothing wrong with being single. You are free!
Feelin' Good (Bassache Remix) - Nina Simone
